Disclaimer: This is my blog and is therefore filled with MY thoughts, MY feelings, MY venting and anything else I want it to. So if you don't want to hear what I have to say....DON'T FREAKIN' READ IT. Isn't that easy?
I learned some things this week that were rather surprising. For instance:
-It doesn't matter what you're going through personally. If you dare speak (blog) about it, you'll be told that you're basically whiny and dramatic. And here I thought that's what blogs were for. Silly me.
-Talking about your life and what is happening in it and daring to put blame on certain issues where it belongs, and that just happens to NOT be yourself, means you're not "taking responsibility for your own actions." Um, poppycock. I'm ever so sorry if it bothers you, but I won't say it's MY fault my ex cheated. Or abused me. Or abandoned me, because it ISN'T. I can take responsiblity for my actions just fine. I won't take it for his.
-If you don't handle things in your life as well as other people THINK you should you are, again, whiny and dramatic. Oh, and selfish. Let's not forget selfish. Not that it ever occured to anyone, but does the possibility exist that I handle things differently because I am, in fact, NOT YOU? Different person, different mindset, different values, different LIFE. It doesn't make me wrong, it makes me not you.
-Friendship is fleeting. 'Nuff said.
-Honesty, when properly applied, is a wonderful thing. "Honesty," when in the form of saying one thing to someones face and another behind their back is nothing but candy coated, ignorant bullshit.
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